The welcome's seq and processed.last_batch are the host's word and were used
unchecked: accepted computed self.seq + 1 and queue bumped next_batch, so a
host sending u64::MAX overflowed the client (panic in debug, wrap in release).
Both counters now step with checked_add/saturating_add, and a sequence that
cannot advance is refused as a protocol error (the established rejoin path).
Test: hostile_sequence_numbers_do_not_overflow_the_client.